Pointing may be getting closer
Sharing attention becomes more intentional
By The Millie's Team · Parenting Notes
Around week forty-two, your baby may start to use their finger to point. Even before a clear point, you may see them shifting attention from a thing to you and back, asking you to look too.
What is happening
Pointing is more than a movement. It is a way of sharing attention, which is one of the deeper foundations of language and connection. Your baby is starting to want you to see what they see.
Is this normal
Yes. Some babies point clearly and early, others share attention with looks or open hands first. Both are real communication. The exact shape of the point matters less than the wish to share.
What you may notice
- Looking at a thing, then at you, then back at the thing
- Open-handed reaches that look like pointing
- A first finger point during play or outings
- Vocalising at the same time as reaching
What helps right now
- Following their gaze and naming what they see
- Pointing alongside them
- Pausing to share the moment before moving on
- Treating every share as worth a response
What to expect next
Over the coming weeks, pointing often becomes a regular part of the day. It can be a request, a question or a way to show you something exciting, all from one small finger.