Separation anxiety and what it means
When your baby suddenly becomes clingy
By The Millie's Team · Parenting Notes
Around 7-9 months, many babies develop separation anxiety. They may cry when you leave the room or become upset with unfamiliar people. This is a healthy developmental milestone.
What is happening
Your baby now understands that you exist even when they cannot see you (object permanence). They have not yet learned that you will always come back.
Is this normal?
Yes. Separation anxiety is a sign of a strong, healthy attachment. It shows that your baby feels safe with you.
What helps right now
- Practice short separations and always return with a smile
- Create a goodbye ritual
- Avoid sneaking away, as this can increase anxiety